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Notes for John Whitehouse
He gave a few different birth years in the censuses and at marriage:

Census      Birth       Birth place

1865        1842       -
1871        1841       Cheslyn Hay
1881        1844       Cheslyn Hay
1891        1847       Cheslyn Hay
1901        1844       Cheslyn Hay

There are far too many John Whitehouse births within 1841 to 1847 to identify his.

There were thirty four John Whitehouse deaths in Staffordshire from 1901  to 1941.

He was last seen in the 1901 census so must have died any time after that.
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At marriage he gave his father’s name as William and said he was a coal miner.

Can I find a Cheslyn Hay family in 1961 with him and his father William both in the one dwelling?

In 1961, here’s one candidate at Wyrley Bank, Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire:

First name(s)  Last name  Relationship  Marital status  Sex  Age  Birth year  Occupation  Birth place
William           Whitehouse  Head  M  M  39  1822  Coal miner    Great Wyrley, Staffordshire
Susannah          Whitehouse  Wife  M  F  39  1822  -             Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
John              Whitehouse  Son   U  M  19  1842  Coal miner    Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Samuel            Whitehouse  Son   U  M  16  1845  Coal miner    Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Jonah             Whitehouse  Son   U  M  12  1849  Brick burner  Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Selina            Whitehouse  Daur  U  F  10  1851  Scholar       Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Louisa            Whitehouse  Daur  U  F   8  1853  Scholar       Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Eliza             Whitehouse  Daur  -  F   7  1854  Scholar       Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Mary Ann          Whitehouse  Daur  -  F   4  1857  Scholar       Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
William         Whitehouse  Son   -  M   2  1859  Scholar       Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire
Frederick George  Whitehouse  Son   -  M   0  1861  -             Cheslyn Hay, Staffordshire

Ref:
Archive reference  RG09
Piece number       1982
Folio              97
Page               15
Combined:          1961 ref: RG09, piece 1982, folio 97, p. 15

The other John Whitehouse family with a William in the house had the William for a brother, not a father.  So the above is the most likely for John Whitehouse’s family in 1961.
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Notes for John & Emma (Family)
Their marriage index:

First name(s)     Emma
Last name         Eccleston
Marriage quarter  1
Marriage year     1865
MarriageFinder    Emma Eccleston married one of these people
                  John Whitehouse, George Acres
District          Walsall
County            Staffordshire
Country           England
Volume            6B
Page number       702
Record set        England & Wales Marriages 1837-2005
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This does not provide the names of their fathers.  Nor can a copy of any parish register marriage be found on FindMyPast.  So I may have to shell out on a full marriage Certificate.  Though Ancestry will be tried first; they have nothing.  Ordered from GRO on 6 July 2021.  Delivered on 13th July 2021.
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One point to notice is that all her and John Whitehouse’s children were registered with her maiden name given as Eccleston.  It is not clear yet what even was the first event to have this maiden name reported.  Was it the marriage on 20th February 1865 or was it the registration of George’s birth in Q1 of 1965?  I have ordered George’s birth certificate to find out; on 13th July 2021.

The next event at which her maiden name of Eccleston was given was in April 1865 when she got her first two children baptised and gave her full maiden name for the sole parent of William Henry whose birth had not been registered.  See the marriage notes for the relationship between herself and the unknown father of William Henry Eccleston.
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Walsall where they married, is about seven miles from Cheslyn Hay where they lived and where all the children were born.  Why did they go there and how did they do it?

She married in Q1 of 1865; she gave birth to George in Q1 of 1865.  I will shortly get the precise date of their marriage and the precise date of George’s birth is looking necessary.

So whatever the date, she was either heavily pregnant or had just given birth.  Could she really have walked that distance?  There were no buses or trains in those days and probably she and John could not have afforded either of those.  They may have got a lift on a carter’s wagon.

This still does not explain the long journey.  It is looking extremely likely that Emma was a very young mother.  She could have given birth to William Henry as young as ten.  If she wished to get married at the age of eleven, she would have needed her father’s permission.  She might have been thrown out of her parents’ house the moment she announced her pregnancy.  Or she might have anticipated a veto on her marriage by her father. Anyhow she could well have needed to conceal her age and make out that she was 21; certainly she did something of the sort in the early censuses of her married life.

(My gt-grandfather said his father was dead when he got married at the age of 19; this saved him the trouble of getting the long-estranged chap’s permission for his first marriage.  And in fact he later died some nine years before his father.)
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Transcript of the marriage certificate:

CERTIFIED COPY OF AN ENTRY OF MARRIAGE   GIVEN AT THE GENERAL REGISTER OFFICE

1865 Marriage solemnised at St Matthew’s Church in the Parish of Walsall in the County of Stafford
No:            346
When Married:  February 20th

                His                  Hers
Full name:      John Whitehouse      Emma Eccleston
Age:            23                   20
Condition:      Bachelor             Spinster
Profession:     Miner                -
Residence:      Lichfield St.        Lichfield St.
Father’s name:  William Whitehouse   William Eccleston
Father’s job:   Miner                Forgeman

Married in the Parish Church according to the Rites and
Ceremonies of the Established Church by Banns by me:   Wm. Burnet, Curate

This Marriage was solemnized between us: X John Whitehouse his mark, Emma Eccleston
In the Presence of us: X  Joseph Jones his mark,  X Elizabeth Morgan her mark.
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Last Modified 13 Jul 2021Created 14 May 2022 by Tim Powys-Lybbe
Re-created by Tim Powys-Lybbe on 14 May 20220