m. (1) Cecilia Lord, (2) Julian (possibly Gibbons).

In the 1841 census:

Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Born in County?

Haywood James 35 - Solicitor No
Haywood Cecilia 25 - No

Ref: HO107/1151/F?

Address: Ladywood Lane
Parish: Edgbaston
Registration District: Kings Norton
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In the 1851 census:

Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Birth Place

Haywood James  47 Head  Solicitor In Practice  Sheffield, Yorkshire
Haywood Cecilia 37 Wife H…field, Gloucestershire
Haywood Jane L 8 Daughter Scholar Edgbaston, Warwickshire
Haywood Walker W 7 Son Scholar Edgbaston, Warwickshire
Haywood Elizabeth 5 Daughter  Scholar  Moseley, Worcestershire
Haywood Francis W 4 Son Scholar Moseley, Worcestershire
Haywood James H W 3 Son Scholar Moseley, Worcestershire
Haywood Cecilia 1 Daughter Edgbaston, Warwickshire
Lord  Lucy  60  Mother In Law  Annuitant  Wolverhampton, Staffordshire       
Stanley Elizabeth 25 Governess Governess London, -
Riley Elizabeth 20 Servant Cook Barksworth, Warwickshire
Riley Elizabeth 27 Servant House Maid Burton, Staffordshire
Church Jane 20 Servant Nurse Chepstow, Monmouthshire

Ref: HO107/2049/~F300

Address: Hagley Road
Parish: Edgbaston
Registration District: Kings Norton

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In the 1861 census:

Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Birth Place

Haywood James 55 Head Solicitor Sheffield, Yorkshire
Haywood Julian 40 Wife Chelsea, Middlesex
Haywood Jane Lucy 18 Daughter Edgbaston, Warwickshire
Haywood Elizabeth Grace  16 Daughter Moseley, Warwickshire
Haywood Francis. W 14 Son Moseley, Warwickshire
Haywood James. H. W 13 Son Moseley, Warwickshire
Haywood Cecilia. M. H 11 Daughter Edgbaston, Warwickshire
Haywood Christine. E 6 Daughter Edgbaston, Warwickshire  
Bird Eliza 24 Servant Everton, Northamptonshire
Partridge Elizabeth 28 Servant Birmingham, Warwickshire
Lewis Elizabeth 23 Servant Kingsland, Herefordshire  
Clifton William  20  Servant Groom & Gardener  Holdenley, Northamptonshire         
Haywood Thomas 60 Visitor Gentle Man Sheffield, Yorkshire

Ref: RG9/1970/~F61

Address: Dosthill House
Parish: Wilnecote
Registration District: Tamworth
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Here's an interesting e-mail:

From: "murcon" <murcon@netcom.ca>
Subject: [WAR] TAMWORTH DOSTILL & WILNECOTE
Date: Wed, 15 May 2002 17:06:02 -0700

Hi Listers
My 3x great grandfather purchased land " The Thynne Estate around Tamworth, a Colliery in Wilnecote, and land and either built or bought DOSTHILL HOUSE. this would be around 1793. Sir Robert Peel purchase adjacent land, at this time also.
I have a photo of Dosthill House, which I believe is a few miles from Tamworth. the photo taken c 1930.
Lady Peel lived in the house after the death of my 2 x gr. grandfather in 1846.
Does anyone know about the land & house.
or any reference to them.
Regards
Mary
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The deaths on FreeBMD are a little too complex to unwrap.  It is known that he was alive in 1861 census and did not appear in 1871, so probably died between those dates.  He was born in 1806, and the deaths after 1866 gives ages, of which his would have been 60; the only JH of the right age who died after 1866 did so in the Isle of Wight which does not look right.  Between 1861 and 1866, there are 13 JH deaths, some of which are in the area of Dosthill Ho, Staffs.  A more appealing one is:

Q1 of 1864, Stafford dist, vol 6b, p. 20

But either of these could be him as well:

Q4 of 1861, W Bromwich, vol 6b, p. 313
Q4 of 1861, Belper dist, vol 7b, p. 252

June 2013, TFPL: Janet, a Haywood descendant, has pointed me to the entries by the Ryde Social Heritage Group, specifically his gravestone at <http://www.rshg.org.uk/grave_record.asp?graveid=3369>; which records:

Top Side North facing
JAMES HAYWOOD ESQ., LATE OF DOSTHILL HOUSE, WARWICKSHIRE
DIED AT RYDE 11TH MARCH 1866

Top End West facing
HE IS NOT DEAD BUT SLEEPETH

Top Side South facing
I SHALL GO TO HIM BUT HE SHALL NOT RETURN TO ME

Top End East facing
HIS WILL BE DONE

The first line of this clearly identifies him and his death date.
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The above MI means that this is his GRO death entry:

Surname First name(s) Age District Vol  Page
Deaths Mar 1866   (>99%)
HAYWOOD James 61 I. Wight 2b 371
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In 1854, at the birth of their daughter Cecilia, they were living at 9 Carpenter Road, Edgbaston, Warks.
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This may be his second marriage:  (It is!)

Surname First name(s) District Vol  Page
Marriages Jun 1859   (>99%)
Gibbons Juliana St Geo Han Sq 1a 365   
Haywood James St Geo Han Sq 1a 365   
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Nothing can be found on FamilySearch about his baptism, parents or siblings.  We know that he had a brother Thomas, born in 1801, as shown in the 1861 census.  I wonder if this Joseph Haywood, magistrate, was a relative, from the 1851 census:

Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Birth Place

Haywood Joseph 60 Head Magistrate Sheffield, Yorkshire

Ref: HO107/2342/~F221

Address: Pye Bank
Parish: Brightside Bierlow
Registration District: Sheffield

Joseph would have been born in 1791.
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This is probably Joseph in 1841:

Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Born in County?

Haywood Joseph 50 - Attorney Yes

Ref: HO107/1329/~F3

Address: Grove House
Parish: Brightside Bierlow
Registration District: Yorks W R - Doncaster, Ecclesfield, Rotherham & Sheffield
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He, James, died intestate and on Jan 8th 1867 a notice was published in the London Gazette that his widow Juliana was given letters of administration.  In this notice he was said to still be, though possibly formerly, of Dosthill, Tamworth, Staffs but died at Ryde, Isle of Wight, on the 11th March 1866.
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His death certificate reads:

Registration District:  Isle of Wight
Sub-district:  Ryde
Year of death 1866
Cert No: 50
When & where died: Eleventh March 1866, 2 Sydney Terrace, Ryde
Name:  James Haywood
Sex: Male
Age:  61 years
Occupation:  Gentleman
Cause of death: Debility of Heart Angine Pactoris 2 hours certified.
Informant: Edmund Bartlett, in attendance, of 2 Sydney Street, Ryde
When registered: Sixteenth March 1866
Registrar: Robert Conan(?)
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There was a James son of Thomas Yaywood baptised in 1801 in Ecclesfield, Sheffies, but is NOT him.
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His probate index:

HAYWOOD James
Effects under £1,500

2 July [1866]
Letters of Administration of the personal estate and effects of James Haywood formerly of Birmingham in the County of Warwick but late of Ryde in the Isle of Wight in the County of Southampton Gentleman deceased who died 11 March 1866 at Ryde aforesaid were granted at the Principal Registry to Juliana Haywood of Cheltenham in the County of Gloucester Widow the Relict of the said Deceased she having been first sworn.
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Their marriage registration date:

Name James Haywood
District Chepstow, Monmouthshire
Spouse Cecilia Lord
Page 0043
Volume 26
Registered July - September 1840
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Their marriage certificate, obtained using the above information:

Year: 1840
Solemnised by: Licence in the parish of Chepstow, Monmouths
Cert No:  12
Marr date: August 12
Groom: James Haywood, of full age, bachelor, Solicitor,
       residence = Edgbaston, Warwicks
       father = Joseph Haywood, Gent
Bride: Cecilia Lord, of full age, father = Saml Hall Lord, esq
       residence = Chepstow
Celebrant: James Davis, B A, Vicar

Witnesses: Annie King, Lucy Crump, Henry Neel(?)
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Their marriage:

Surname First name(s) District Vol  Page
Marriages Jun 1859   (>99%)
Gibbons Juliana St Geo Han Sq 1a 365   
Haywood James St Geo Han Sq 1a 365   
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