NameGrace Stopford Sackville [62, 107th edn, pub 2003, Stopford article, vol 1, p. 924], [4, 1861 ref: RG09, piece 959, folio 93, p. 10], [3, Death, Q1 of 1944, Meriden dist, vol 9D, p. 729], [4, 1891 ref: RG12, piece 2441, folio 20, p. 12], [4, 1939 ref: RG101/5728F/015/5]
Birth2 Sep 1854, 58 Eaton Place, Middlesex
Baptism1 Oct 1854, St Paul’s church, Knightsbridge, Middlesex
Death16 Feb 1944, Fillongley Hall, Warwickshire
General8th & yst dau. She had six children.
Spouses
1Henry Arden Adderley Lord Norton [62, 107th edn, pub 2003, Norton article, vol 2, p. 2949], [3, Birth, Q4 of 1854, Meriden dist, vol 3D, p. 267], [3, Death, Q1 of 1945, Meriden dist, vol 6D, p. 817], [4, 1891 ref: RG12, piece 2441, folio 20, p. 12], [4, 1901 ref: RG13, piece 84, folio 73, p. 27], [4, 1939 ref: RG101/5728F/015/5]
Marriage30 Aug 1881, Lowick church, Northans [62, 107th edn, pub 2003, Norton article, vol 2, p. 2949], [3, Marriage, Q3 of 1881, Thrapston dist, vol 3B, p. 317], [19, Marriage on 30th Aug 1881 at Lowick Northants]
Notes for Grace Stopford Sackville
Grace and Henry had 1 s. and 5 daus.
Her baptism transcription by FindMyPast:
First name(s) Grace
Last name Stopford
Birth year 1854
Birth date ? ? 1854
Baptism year 1854
Baptism date 01 Oct 1854
Father's first name(s) William Bruce
Mother's first name(s) Caroline Harriet
Parish St Paul, Wilton Place, Knightsbridge
County Middlesex
Country England
Page 19
Archive City of Westminster Archives Centre
Record set Westminster Baptisms
The image of the register page adds that her parents abode was 58 Eaton Place, Middlesex (probably in Knightsbridge) and the presumed place of her birth.
With her baptism on 1 Oct 1854, her birth was very probably in September 1954.
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No birth registration can be found.
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In 1891 they had five children at Fillongley Hall, Shustoke Lane, Fillongley, Meriden, Warwickshire:
First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Occupation Birth place
Henry A Adderley Head M M 36 1855 Living on our means Lea Marston, Warwickshire
Grace Adderley Wife M F 36 1855 Living on our means St George's, London
Muriel G Adderley Daur S F 8 1883 Living on our means St George's, London
Ruth M Adderley Daur - F 7 1884 Living on our means St George's, London
Hubert Adderley Son - M 5 1886 Living on our means Fillongley, Warwickshire
Isabel I Adderley Daur - F 3 1888 Living on our means Fillongley, Warwickshire
Joan Adderley Daur - F 1 1890 Living on our means Fillongley, Warwickshire
Eliza Jones Serv S F 28 1863 Cook Plympton?
Alice M Pickernell Serv S F 26 1865 Ladies maid Codicote, Hertfordshire
Helen H Arnold Serv S F 22 1869 Nurse Not known
Emily L Myham Serv S F 19 1872 Nurse maid Middlesex, England
Ellen Kirkland Serv S F 22 1869 Kitchen maid Burton on Trent, Staffordshire
Alice Botham Serv S F 21 1870 Laundry maid Anslow, Staffordshire
Annie Smith Serv S F 16 1875 House maid Atherstone, Warwickshire
Henry J Hubbard Serv M M 34 1857 Butler Surrey
Lewis Pegg Serv S M 14 1877 Page Atherstone, Warwickshire
William Clark Serv S M 18 1873 Stable boy Poplar, Middlesex
Ref:
Archive reference RG12
Piece number 2441
Folio 20
Page 12
Combined: 1891 ref: RG12, piece 2441, folio 20, p. 12
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In 1901 Grace was staying with her brother, mother and sister in Chelsea, with none of her own family with her.
Four of her daughters were at Filonley with a governess who was presumably in charge:
First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Occupation Birth place
Muriel G Adderley Daur S F 18 1883 - London, England
Isabel J Adderley Daur - F 13 1888 - Fillongley, Warwickshire, England
Joan Adderley Daur - F 11 1890 - Fillongley, Warwickshire, England
Lettice M Adderley Daur - F 6 1895 - Fillongley, Warwickshire, England
Eugene V Adams Gvrn S F 30 1871 Teaching France
Henry J Hubbard Serv M M 43 1858 Butler Tooting, Surrey, England
Sarah Bailey Serv S F 37 1864 Cook Leicestershire, England
Rose Ellen Childs Serv S F 24 1877 Nurse Rushden, Northamptonshire, England
Elizabeth Whittall Serv S F 19 1882 Housemaid Kinsham, Herefordshire, England
Lizzie Holden Serv S F 19 1882 Housemaid Worcestershire, England
Ref:
Archive reference RG13
Piece number 2895
Folio 18
Page 7
Combines: 1901 ref: RG23, piece 2895, folio 18, p. 7
But the above leaves as yet unfound: her husband, son Hubert and her dau Ruth M.
Her husband was with his father in London.
Ruth was at a school at Handon, Middlesex.
Hubert was at school at Eton.
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In 1911 Grace and Henry and two daughters were in North Cornwall; Grace said she had had six children all of whom were living; they were at West Cliff Bude North Cornwall, Stratton and Bude:
First name(s) Last name Relationship Marital status Sex Age Birth year Occupation Birth place
Henry Arden Adderley Head M F 56 1855 Barrister private means Warwickshire Lea Marston
Grace Adderley Wife M F 56 1855 - London Eaton Pl S W
Isabel Julia Adderley Daur S F 23 1888 - Warwickshire Fillongley
Joan Adderley Daur S F 21 1890 - Warwickshire Fillongley
Millicent Bonnes Breeze Serv S F 29 1882 Cook domestic Montgomery Welshpool
Agnes Rowlands Serv S F 29 1882 Parlour maid Cornwall Bude
Elsie Cook Serv S F 27 1884 Lady's maid Oxfordshire Kingham
Mabel Nellie Carter Serv S F 18 1893 House maid Worcestershire Gt Maldron
Ada Frawen Serv S F 20 1891 Kicthenmaid Gloucestershire Colford
ref: 1911 ref: RG14PN13516 RG78PN792 RD288 SD2 ED7 SN12
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Her entry in the 1939 register, giving a birth date, but with mistranscriptions of their surnames:
Fillongley Hall , Meriden R.D., Warwickshire, England
FIRST NAME(S) LAST NAME(S) DOB SEX OCCUPATION MARITAL STATUS SCHEDULE SCHEDULE SUB NUMBER
Henry A Adderly [sic] 26 Sep 1854 M D L - J P M 131 1
Grace Adderly [sic] 02 Sep 1854 F Wife M 131 2
Jervoise Beatrice E (B) Clarke 03 Jul 1853 F Private Means W 131 3
Ellen Beckinsale 06 Apr 1863 F Nurse SR S 131 4
Kathleen Bird 01 Oct 1892 F Ladys Maid S 131 5
Elizabeth M Hill 08 Apr 1922 F Servant S 131 6
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Margatey E Heath 12 Mar 1908 F Servant S 131 9
1939 ref: RG101/5728F/015/5
The children numbered at 7 and 8 cannot be their children but could be either grandchildren or evacuees.
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Gace and Henry’s six children were, from the censuses:
Name Birth Yr Birth Place
Muriel G 1883 St George’s London
Ruth M 1884 St George’s London
Hubert 1886 Fillongley Warwickshire
Isabel Julia 1888 Fillongley Warwickshire
Joan 1890 Fillongley Warwickshire
Lettice M 1895 Fillongley Warwickshire
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The birth indices were:
Name: Mother's Maiden Surname:
ADDERLEY, MURIEL GRACE STOPFORD SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1882 S Quarter in ST GEORGE HANOVER SQUARE Volume 01A Page 412
ADDERLEY, RUTH MARGARET STOPFORD-SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1884 M Quarter in ST GEORGE HANOVER SQUARE Volume 01A Page 455
ADDERLEY, HUBERT BOWYER ARDEN STOPFORTH SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1886 J Quarter in MERIDEN Volume 06D Page 443
ADDERLEY, ISABEL JULIA STOPFORD-SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1887 S Quarter in MERIDEN Volume 06D Page 423
ADDERLEY, JOAN SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1890 M Quarter in MERIDEN Volume 06D Page 443
ADDERLEY, LETTICE MARY STOPFORD SACKVILLE
GRO Reference: 1894 S Quarter in MERIDEN Volume 06D Page 409
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Her death index:
First name(s) GRACE
Last name ADDERLEY
Gender Female
Birth year 1855
Age 89
Death quarter 1
Death year 1944
District Meriden
County Warwickshire
Volume 6D
Page 729
Country England
Record set England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
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Will notes for Grace Stopford Sackville
Her probate index:
NORTON Grace baroness of Fillongley Hall Warwickshire (wife of Henry Arden baron Norton) died 16 February 1944 Probate Birmingham 4 May to the honourable Hubert Bowyer Arden Adderley retired major H.M. army. Effects £537 5s. 1d.
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Notes for Henry Arden & Grace (Family)
Their civil marriage index:
First name(s) GRACE STOPFORD
Last name SACKVILLE
Marriage quarter 3
Marriage year 1881
MarriageFinder GRACE STOPFORD SACKVILLE married
Henry Arden Adderley
District Thrapston
County Northamptonshire
Country England
Volume 3B
Page 317
Record set England & Wales Marriages 1837-2005
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And from ancestry an image of the marriage register page, transcript by me:
“ Page 52
“. . . .
“1881. Marriage solemnized by Special Licence in the Church of Lowick in the County of Northampton
“No: 104
“When married: August 30th.
His Hers
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“Name: Henry Arden Adderley Grace Stopford Sackville
“Age: of Full age of Full age
“Condition: Bachelor Spinster
“Profession: Barrister -
“Residence: Filonley Hall Drayton House, in the parish of Lowick
“Father: Charles Bowyer, Baron Norton William Bruce Stopford Sackville
“Father’s job: Peer Esquire
Married in the Parish Church according to the Rites and Ceremonies
of the Church of England by me, Augustus Legge
This marriage was solemnized between us, Henry Arden Adderley, Grace Stopford SackvilleIn the Presence of us, Christopher Sackville, Norton, Fred W Stopford, Harry Clarke Jewsise(?), Julia A E Norton
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The celebrant was her sister’s husband.
Of the witnesses:
Christopher Sackville, I know nothing about (currently)
Norton is obvious,
Fred W Stopford could be Fred manners Stopford and a descendant of an earl of Courtown
Harry Clarke Jewsize(?) I don’t know,
Julia A E Norton was the grooms’s mother.
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