NameEliza Coster [4, 1841 census: PRO HO 107/677/17 p. 7], [4, 1851 ref: HO107/1490/~F592], [4, 1861 for South Stoneham, page 167, film RG9/681], [4, 1871 for Bitterne, Hants, page 2, ref No RG 10 1197], [27, 2001 for Scotland, Grant article, p. 552], [3, Her death, Q3 of 1879, S Stoneham dist, vol 2c, p. 24], [5, Death certificate no 398 for South Stoneham, Hants of 1879]
Birthca 1821, St George's parish, Southwark
Death25 Jul 1879, Harefield House, Bitterne, South Stoneham, Hants
GeneralYr dau. Widow of Arthur Grant of Monymusk (with 2 children).
Spouses
1Commander Arthur Grant RN [36], [27, 2001 for Scotland, Grant article, p. 552], [3, His death, Q2 of 1850, Rochford dist, vol 12, p. 133], [67, Grant article, vol IV, p. 434]
Marriage13 Apr 1848, MaryLeBone district, London [27, 2001 for Scotland, Grant article, p. 552], [3, Their marriage, Q2 of 1848, Marylebone dist, vol 1, p. 221]
2William Stedman Gillett [36], [4, 1861 for South Stoneham, page 167, film RG9/681], [4, 1871 for Bitterne, Hants, page 2, ref No RG 10 1197], [4, 1881], [17, 1715-1886, p. 525], [27, 2001 for Scotland, Grant article, p. 552], [5, His death cert No 368 of South Stoneham, Hants of 1886], [3, His death aged 86, Q1 of 1996, S Stoneham dist, vol 2c, p. 40], [21, His birth+baptism, St Pancras, Index No C04793-8, Film 597805]
Marriage19 Jun 1855, Trinity Church, St Marylebone, Mx [5, Marr cert no 267 for Trinity, Church, Marylebone], [3, Their marriage, Q2 of 1855, Marylebone dist, vol 1a, p. 781]
Notes for Eliza Coster
m. (1) Arthur Grant, (2) William Stedman Gillett.
In FreeBMD an Elizabeth Stedman died in 1876 aged 62, registered at Petersfield, Hants, Vol 2c, page 93. Not far off...
And, even better, in FreeBMD, an Eliza Gillett died in Sept 1879 quarter, registered S Stoneham, aged 58, Vol 2c page 24
April 2004, TFPL: One or two facts are emerging:
At the birth of her daughter Mary Hodgson Gillett, she was called "Eliza Gillett late Grant formerly Coster", thus confirming the information from RCLPL that she had previously married a Grant.
In the 1861 census she was living with her family at Harefield, South Stoneham. Her family then included her children (stepchildren to William Stedman Gillett):
Arthur H Grant, aged 11, born in Southend, Essex
Adela R(?) B(?) Grant, aged 10, born in Marylebone, Middlesex
thus confirming further her previous marriage to Arthur Grant.
In 1861 she was reported to be 39 and born in Southwark St Georges (possibly the place of her christening?).
In the 1871 census, her two Grant children are not to be seen but both would have been 20 and may have fled the nest. Her age is reported as 50 and she is reported (wrongly?) to have been born at the same place as her husband - Surrey, St Mary's Bermondsey.
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At her second marriage, to Wm S Gillett, she was Eliza Grant, widow and her father was Thomes Coster, who was almost certainly the Thomas G W Coster, gentleman, who witnessed the marriage, another witness was Maria Coster, almost certainly her mother. She had been living at Christ Church rectory (Marylebone?). Another witness was Henry Edwards who could have been a friend or relation of anyone...
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On her death certificate she was 58, wife of William Stedman, Gillett, Gentleman. The informant was Elizabeth Allen, present at the death and of Herefield, Bitterne, South Stoneham. Hence her birth was late 1820 - early 1821.
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TFPL, Jan 2012: In 1851 she was a widow in Marylebone with her two sons:
Surname Forename Age Relation Occupation Birth Place
Grant Eliza 30 Head Annuitant London, Middlesex
Grant Arthur H 1 Son Southend, Essex
Grant Adelaide C 6 M Daur London, Middlesex
Mead Amelia 30 Servant Housemaid Eastwood, Essex
Headgold Caroline 30 Servant Nurse Andover, Hampshire
Frost Rose 20 Servant Cook Sopley, Norfolk
Ref: HO107/1490/~F592
Address: 4 Harewood Square
Parish: Marylebone
Registration District: Marylebone
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