Her birth index:

Name:                    Mother's Maiden Surname:
BERENS, VIOLET FRANCES   PARK  
GRO Reference: 1880  D Quarter in BROMLEY  Volume 02A  Page 398
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In 1911 she and Edward Loxley Waring had a son Richard William Loxley aged 3 with them at Halstead Hall Halstead, Halstead, Kent and Violet recorded that she had been married for 4 years, had one child who survived.:

First name(s)  Last name  Relationship  Marital status  Sex  Age  Birth year  Occupation  Birth place
Edward Loxley           Waring     Head     M  M  47  1864  Private means  Cheslfield Kent
Violet Frances          Waring     Wife     M  F  30  1881  -              St Mary Cray Kent  
Richard William Loxley  Waring     Son      -  M   3  1908  -              St Mary Cray Kent
Isabella Susan          Collins    Servant  S  F  27  1884  Nurse          Kings Cross London
Mary Ellen              Ellis      Servant  S  F  27  1884  Cook           Lincoln
Annie Ethel             Pile       Servant  S  F  21  1890  Parlour maid   Pluckley Kent
Percy                   Pattenden  Servant  S  M  23  1888  Groom          East Malling Kent

1911 ref: RG14PN4000 RG78PN153 RD49 SD1 ED4 SN46
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In 1939 she gaqve her birth date and was living with no family but still at Halstead Hall Station Road, Halstead, Sevenoaks R.D., Kent and but with a large household, probably evacuees from London:

First name(s)  Last name(s)  DOB  Sex  Occupation  Marital status  Schedule  Schedule Sub Number
Violet F  Waring    10 Nov 1880  Female  Unpaid Domestic         Widowed  117  1
Hester C  Wakeling  25 Oct 1884  Female  Cook                    Single   117  2
Annie     Luery     25 Jul 1905  Female  House Parlourmaid       Single   117  3
       (later Williams)
Nellie    Clements  30 Mar 1914  Female  Unpaid Domestic Duties  Married  117  4
The record for this person is officially closed.
Alice C   Richards  03 Mar 1910  Female  Office Cleaner          Married  117  6
The record for this person is officially closed.
The record for this person is officially closed.
The record for this person is officially closed.
The record for this person is officially closed.
The record for this person is officially closed.
The record for this person is officially closed.

1939 Ref: RG101/1839D/013/33
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It looks like she had three children:
    
    Birth
    Year   Forenames                 Birth place/district
1.  1908   Richard William Loxley    St Mary Cray, Kent
2.  1919   James E L                 Sevenoaks district, Kent  
3.  1921   Thomas R L                Sevenoaks district, Kent

The first and third were her executors in 1949.  I wonder if James lost his life in WW2?
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Her death index:

First name(s)  Violet F
Last name      Waring
Gender         Female
Birth year     1881
Age            68
Death quarter  3
Death year     1949
District       Dartford
County         Kent
Volume         5B
Page           381
Country        England
Record set     England & Wales Deaths 1837-2007
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Her probate index:

1949
WARING Violet Frances of Halstead Hall near Sevenoaks Kent widow died 26 July 1949 at Joyce Green Hospital Dartford Kent  Probate London 10 October to Richard William Loxley Waring member of London Stock exchange Herbert Cecil Benyon Berens banker and Thomas Roderick Loxley Waring sales representative  Effects £14737 3s. 10d.

Of the above executors,
1. Robert William Loxley Waring was her son,
2. Herbert Cecil Benyon Berens was her nephew by her brother Cecil,
3. Thomas Roderick Loxley Waring is, as yet, unknown but must be close.  Later he was identified as her third son, born in 1921.
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Their marriage index:

First name(s)     Violet Frances
Last name         Berens
Marriage quarter  3
Marriage year     1906
MarriageFinder    Violet Frances Berens married one of these people
                  Edward Loxley Waring
District          Bromley
County            Kent
Country           England
Volume            2A
Page number       1137
Record set        England & Wales Marriages 1837-2005
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