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Notes for Mary Elizabeth Fox
2005: No baptism found.

In 2022, still no baptism found.  I happen to have acquired a copy of her mother’s diaries which are interesting accounts of social and political matters of those time.  Unfortunately the diaries were interrupted when her parents went on an extended tour of continental Europe from October 1802 to April 1805 when they returned to England.  While some diaries were written in 1805 and 1806, the editor did not include them.  So there is no known reference in them to the birth of Mary Elizabeth.

Her birth locations and years in the various censuses were:

  Census       Birth      Birth
   Year   Age   Year     Location
   1851    40   1811     London, Middlesex
   1861    56   1805     Kensington, Middlesex
   1871    65   1806     Pall Mall, London
   1881    75   1806     St Stephen, London, Middx
   1891    85   1806     Pall Mall, London

The censuses asked for the ages of the inhabitants on the day of the census.  Much later people have subtracted the age from the year to give the birth year.  The weakness of this method of calculating age is that it tends to give a later than actual birth year.  It is possible that she was born in 1805 and that this might have been somewhere in Europe, in spite of her assertions of a London birth, and might not yet have have had any record made public.  The other issue, see her father’s record, is what precise surname she was given at birth: Fox, Vassall, Vassall Fox or Vassall-Fox.  I have intensively searched for all these possibilities but have not found anything.

Complete Peerage states clearly that she was born on 19 Feb 1806 but I don’t know where they got that from.  For whatever this indicates, CP also stated clearly her death date and this agrees exactly with that in the Probate Index.
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Not found, so far, in the 1841 census.
For 1851, see her hubby’s Notes.
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In 1861 she was just widowed, with many children around her and a household of thirty nine in all at Lilford House, Farm Yard Lane, Lilford cum Wigsthorpe, Oundle, Northants:

First name(s)  Last name  Relationship  Marital status  Sex  Age  Birth year  Occupation  Birth place
... Lady   Lilford     Head  W  F  56  1805  -                 Kensington, Middlesex
Adelaide   Powys       Daur  U  F  29  1832  -                 London, Middlesex
Elizabeth  Powys       Daur  U  F  20  1841  -                 London, Middlesex
Constance  Powys       Daur  U  F  18  1843  -                 London, Middlesex
Mary       Powys       Daur  U  F  17  1844  -                 London, Middlesex
Edward     Powys       Son   U  M  21  1840  Gentleman         London, Middlesex
Fox        Powys       Son   U  M  20  1841  In the army       London, Middlesex
[Georgiana]  Fazakerly Daur  M  F  25  1836  -                 London, Middlesex
John       Fazakerly SinL  M  M  27  1834  Gentleman         London, Middlesex
William    Smyth       Vstr  M  M  38  1823  Gentleman         Northampton, Northants
Lucy       Smith       Vstr  M  F  37  1824  -                 Barton Seagrave, Northamptonshire
Elizabeth  Price       Serv  U  F  55  1806  House keeper      Herefordshire, Yeadon Kington
Hannah     Hurst       Serv  M  F  59  1802  Ladies maid       Mildenhall, Suffolk
Mary       Holloway    Serv  M  F  38  1823  Cook              London, Middlesex
Elizabeth  White       Serv  -  F  45  1816  Ladies maid       London, Middlesex
Maria      Burton      Serv  U  F  20  1841  Ladies maid       Norwich, Norfolk
Rose       Grant       Serv  U  F  28  1833  Ladies maid       Aberdeen, Scotland
Susan      Vivish      Serv  U  F  26  1835  Still room maid   London, Middlesex
Jane       Dudds       Serv  U  F  24  1837  House maid        Newcastle on Tyne, Northumberland
Ann        Smith       Serv  U  F  20  1841  House maid        Northants, Lilford cum W
Lucy       Clipston    Serv  U  F  19  1842  House maid        Yarwell, Northamptonshire
Agnes      Plews       Serv  U  F  32  1829  Laundry maid      Edinburgh, Midlothian, Scotland
Mary       Purdy       Serv  U  F  25  1836  Laundry maid      Newcastle on Tyne, Northumberland
Caroline   French      Serv  U  F  19  1842  Laundry maid      Northants, Aldwinkle
Sarah      Still       Serv  U  F  20  1841  Laundry maid      Woodnewton, Northamptonshire
Elizabeth  Marsh       Serv  U  F  18  1843  Scullery maid     London, Middlesex
Jane       Ellis       Serv  U  F  20  1841  School room maid  Elton, Herefordshire
Mary       Daniels     Serv  U  F  26  1835  Ladies maid       London, Middlesex
George     Harris      Serv  M  M  42  1819  Butler            Leicestershire, Bosworth Hill
William    Sawford     Serv  M  M  40  1821  Valet             Northants, Thorp Achurch
Joseph     Nevitt      Serv  M  M  60  1801  Under butler      Northants, Lilford sum W
Henry      Woodcroft   Serv  U  M  22  1839  Foot man          Sunningdale, Berks
Charles    Andrew      Serv  U  M  17  1844  Page              Barnwell, Northamptonshire
John       Heritage    Serv  M  M  35  1826  Coachman          Oxford
James      Sawford     Serv  U  M  23  1838  Groom             Titchmarsh, Northamptonshire
John       Sharpe      Serv  U  M  17  1844  Groom             Kimbolton, Huntingdonshire
Henry      Osman       Serv  U  M  18  1843  Wild...boy        Oxford
Thomas     Hardcastle  Brdr  M  M  46  1815  Music teacher     York, Yorkshire
David      Richardson  Brdr  M  M  25  1836  Valet             London, Middlesex

I have had to correct many of the birth places which had been poorly transcribed from the enumerator’s sheets (wrapped knuckles to FindMyPast).

Additionally there was a porter’s lodge with a gardener, his wife and their niece in it.  I would expect that this household would have required other gardeners elsewhere to provide enough food.

Ref:
Archive reference  RG09
Piece number        961
Folio               29
Page                15
Combined:           1861 ref: RG09, piece 961, folio 29, page 15

Lucy and William Smyth had to have been Lucy Charlotte, née Stopford, and her husband.  Lucy was the daughter of Eleanor Powys and the first cousin of Mary Elizabeth’s late husband, Thomas Atherton Powys.  Their ages in this census are not correct.

Henry Osman, the “Wild … Boy” was probably a “Wild Beast Boy”, invaluable for all the animals this household was consuming.
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In 1871 she was presiding in majesty over her three unmarried children and ten servants (what did they do for bedrooms?) at 33 Great Cumberland Street, Bryanston Sq, MaryLeBone, London:

Note the surname misprints, taken straight from the enumerator’s sheet so he/she, the enumerator, got it wrong for all the family and it will never be altered by any transcriber.

First name(s)  Last name  Relationship  Marital status  Sex  Age  Birth year  Occupation  Birth place
Mary E         Lifford   Head  W  F  65  1806  Annuitant           London, Pall Mall
Adelaide Mary  Powis     Daur  U  F  39  1832  Annuitant           London, St George H Sq
Caroline May   Powis     Daur  U  F  26  1845  Annuitant           Middlesex, Kensington
Charles Fox    Powis     Son   U  M  30  1841  Captn. 69 Reg Foot  Middlesex, St George H Sq
Hannah         Hurst     Serv  W  F  69  1802  Ladies Maid         Suffolk
Hannah         Drew      Serv  U  F  28  1843  Cook                Worcestershire, Leydon
Elizabeth      White     Serv  U  F  68  1803  Ladies Maid         Devon, Cullompton
Ann            Sage      Serv  U  F  46  1825  Upper Housemaid     Suffolk, Meedham Make(?)
Sophia         Champion  Serv  U  F  26  1845  Under Maid          Oxfordshire, England
Emma           Brothers  Serv  U  F  23  1848  2nd Housemaid       Norfolk, Attleborough
Eliza          Simmons   Serv  U  F  19  1852  Kitchenmaid         Middlesex, Enfield
Simeon         Cole      Serv  U  M  34  1837  Butler              Wiltshire, Kings Langley
William        Trupey    Serv  U  M  26  1845  1st Footman         Middlesex, MaryLeBone
Samuel         Briston   Serv  U  M  18  1853  2nd Footman         W Kent, S???

Ref:
Archive reference  RG10
Piece number       165
Folio              68
Page               16
Combined:          1871 ref: RG10, piece 165, folio 68, p. 16
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In 1881 she was Mary E Silford, widow.  So she must have re-married (or Silford is a misprint for "Lilford").  She had her daughter Caroline M Powys with her at 33 Gt Cumberland Place, Marlebone, London plus a retinue of 10 servants.

At death she was Mary Elizabeth Powys so the above ‘Silford’ must indeed have been a misprint for Lilford.

Name:                       Age at Death (in years):  
POWYS, MARY ELIZABETH       85  
GRO Reference: 1891  D Quarter in MARYLEBONE  Volume 01A  Page 420
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Will notes for Mary Elizabeth Fox
Her probate index:

1892
LILFORD Mary Elizabeth dowager baroness, of 33 Great Cumberland Place Middlesex widow died 7 December 1891  Probate London 8 April to the Right Honourable Thomas Littleton Baron Lilford and Thomas Henry Burroughs esquire Effects £11741 18s. 2d. resworn July 1892 £12946 11s.
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Mon Inscripts notes for Mary Elizabeth Fox
From the Northants FHS booklet of Mon Inscriptions for St John the Baptist, Thorpe Achurch, pub 2015:

On a brass plate:
“To the honour and glory of God and to the gracious memory of MARY ELIZABETH 3rd Lady Lilford (Only daughter of HENRY VASSALL-FOX 3rd Lord Holland and ELIZABETH VASSALL his wife) who was born 19th February 1806 and departed this life 7th December 1891.  This tablet is placed by her children.  A womangreatly beloved. “His servants shall see the face.” Revelations XXII. 3 & 4.
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Notes for Thomas Atherton & Mary Elizabeth (Family)
FindMyPast shows three abstracts of this marriage:

   Date          Bride               Groom                    Place         Recorded by
1. 24 May 1830   Mary Elizabeth Fox  Thomas Atherton Lilford  Kensington    W Mddx FHS

2.  ? May 1830   Mary E Fox          Thomas Atherton          Kensington    W Surrey FHS

3.  ? May 1830   Mary E (Hon) Fox    Thomas Atherton Lilford  Kensington    W Surrey FHS

I have asked W Middx FHS if they can identify which church register this information came from.

I think we can be certain that this was the couple and that a copy was made from a marriage register.  But where is the marriage register held?  London Metropolitan Archives?  I don’t think so as all theirs are on Ancestry’s site.  It sounds like Surrey’s Record Office in Woking where I have had to go for Register copies in the past.

Phillimore’s Register index thinks it could be in either the LMA or the Westminster City Archives.

The two churches in Kensington are:
  Holy Trinity, Brompton Road,     SW3   near V&A
  Holy Trinity, Knightsbridge

Other addresses are: Prince Consort Road, poss. SW7 2BA, AND Sloane Square

The Prince Consort Rd church was only built in 1901

The Holy Trinity, Brompton was build in 1826-9

Holy Trinity Sloane Street was built in 1888-90 - correct!

One of the Holy Trinity churches is SW7 1JA

The original church in Sloane Street was built in 1828-30, demolished in 1888 and eventually replaced by the 1888-90 building.  It describes itself as “Holy Trinity Sloane Square, 146 Sloane Street, London  SW1X 9BZ”.  It is part of the diocese of London.

I think I have now tracked down the old church in which they were married, as it was then the only Holy Trinity in Kensington/Knightsbridge/Chelsea.  See <https://sloanechurch.org>;.
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Phillimore’s index of Parish Registers says that the deposited registers for Holy Trinity Knightsbridge are from 1658 to 1903, that they are deposited at Westminster City Archives, that IGI does not have copies and that the Soc of Genealogists has copies up to 1739 (only).

Westminster City Archives says they have the marriage registers from 1658-1752 and 1866-1903 BUT NOT those for 1752 to 1866!  So who does heave the missing years?  I have asked them.
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Oddly, Ancestry has nothing at all for this marriage.
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Complete Peerage states clearly that they married on the 20th May 1830, so I will accept that until I can find a copy of the marriage register.
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TFPL, Feb 2022: All is now revealed, or rather quite a lot is, thanks to information from West Middlesex Family History Society.  The marriage was in fact at Holland House, by Special Licence.  The marriage was conducted by the people from St Mary’s Abbot, Kensington and so is recorded in their Marriage Register.  St Mary’s Abbot have yet to deposit their registers with a respectable Archive.  So, to get a copy of the record, I must apply to the Church.  The first step is to get on to their website.

The full record of the W. Middx website is:

Groom Surname:      Atherton Lilford
Groom Forename)s):  Thomas
Bride Surname:      Fox
Bride Forename(s):  Mary Elizabeth
Marriage date:      24 May 1830
Parish:             Kensington, St Mary Abbots
Husband Notes:      Rt Hon Lord Lilford
Wife Notes:         -
General Notes:      married at Holland House by special licence
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Feb 24 2022, TFPL, I wrote to Mrs Wilson, whom the website said was the proper person to write to for register enquiries, on 9th February 2022.  So far I have had no reply.  Their fee for a certified copy is a paltry £31, which is the standard C of E fee for such.
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3rd March 2022, TFPL: At last the report of the marriage has been made to me.  Regrettably they still cannot provide any image of the pages (why not, I wonder?).  Instead I have been given this report:

“Entry number 625, on 24th May 1830 The Right Honourable Thomas Atherton, Lord Lilford, Bachelor, was married to Mary Elizabeth Fox, Spinster. They were married by Matthew Marsh, Canon of Salisbury at Holland House by Special Licence. The witnesses were Richmond and Lansdowne.”

‘Richmond’ was Charles Lennox, tenth duke.  ‘Lansdowne’ was Henry Petty, third marquess.

It was obviously good sport to confuse the records by not giving the personal surname for Thomas Atherton.
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