m. (1) Maria Elwes, (2) Augusta Rushbrooke

I have seen an account that says he eloped to Gretna Green and m. Emily Frances Elwes dau. and sole heir of George Elwes seemingly of Marcham Park, Oxon.  The account says he was b. Oct 1782, d. 15 Mar 1854.

In 1841 he and Augusta Duffield were living with possibly 6 servants at the Mansion House, Marcham.

In 1851 he was a widower and living at Castle Priory, New Road, Wallingford:

Name  Relation  Condition  Sex  Age  Birth Year  Occupation  Disability  Where Born

DUFFIELD, Thomas Head Widower M 68 1783 County Magistrate And Landed Proprietor  Ancaster, Lincolnshire
DUFFIELD, Augusta Fanny Daughter F 10 1841 Scholar At Home  Marcham, Berkshire
DUFFIELD, Mary Daughter F 8 1843 Scholar At Home  Marcham, Berkshire
DUFFIELD, Agnes Daughter F 6 1845 Scholar At Home  Marcham, Berkshire
DUFFIELD, Arthur Augustus Son M 5 1846 Scholar At Home  Marcham, Berkshire
JARDINE, Caroline Eliz Visitor Unmarried F 54  1797   Gentlewoman Annuitant  Wixoe, Suffolk
COBB, Louisa Mary Governess Unmarried F 32  1819   Governess  New Romney, Kent
CROSS, Frances Eliz Servant Married F 45 1806 Nurse  Colliton, Devonshire
BENNETT, Eliza Servant Unmarried F 40 1811 Housekeeper  London, City of
PATTERSON, Sarah Servant Unmarried F 21 1830 Nursemaid  Deddington, Gloucestershire
BROWN, Marianne Servant Unmarried F 34 1817 Housemaid  Brightwell, Berkshire
WATSON, Harriett Servant Unmarried F 30 1821 Kitchen Maid  Abingdon, Berkshire
WOODWARD, Thomas Servant Unmarried M 53 1798   Butler  Hanborough, Oxfordshire
STEPHENS, Richard Servant Unmarried M 27 1824 Footman  Barton, Oxfordshire

RG number: HO107 Piece: 1690 Folio: 312 Page: 21    

Registration District: Wallingford Sub District:
Enumeration District: 6 Ecclesiastical Parish: Oxford

Civil Parish: Wallingford St Peter Municipal Borough: Wallingford
Address: Castle Priory, New Road, Wallingford St Peter, Wallingford
County: Berkshire
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Also in 1851, there was an Elizabeth Ashhurst aged 22, sister of Anna Phillips at the former’s house of Waterstock House, Waterstock, Oxon.  So I presume she was another daughter of Thomas Duffield and perhaps by the first marriage?

His death:

Surname First name(s) Age District Vol Page
Deaths Jun 1854   (>99%)
Duffield Thomas Wallingford 2c 201
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A reported Obituary in The Gentleman's Magazine, July 1854, pp. 82-83, reads (in part): THOMAS DUFFIELD, Esq. / March 15. At the Castle Priory, Wallingford, aged 72, Thomas Duffield, esq. High Steward of that borough, and a magistrate of Berkshire. / He was the second son of Michael Duffield, esq. by Alice, daughter and heiress of Jeremiah Crutchley, esq. His elder brother George-Henry exchanged the name of Duffield for that of Crutchley in 1806. / Mr. Duffield served the office of Sheriff of Berkshire in 1827. / In 1832 he was a candidate for Abingdon, as a Conservative politician, and, in spite of the Reform Act then coming into operation, he defeated the former Whig member Colonel Maberly, who had represented the borough from 1818. ... / Mr. Duffield was twice married: first, in 1810, to Emily, only child of George Elwes, esq. of Marcham Park, Berks; and secondly, in 1838, to Augusta-Elizabeth, second daughter of Robert Rushbrooke, esq. M.P. for the Western Division of Suffolk. By the former lady he had issue three sons, George who died in 1833, Henry, and Charles; and five daughters: 1. Caroline, married to Edwin Martin Atkins, esq. of Kingston Lisle, Berks; 2. Maria, married to Head Pottinger Best, esq.; 3. Anna, married to John S Phillips, esq. of Culham, co. Oxford; 4. Susan, who died in 1841; and 5. Elizabeth. By the second marriage he had further issue, one son, Thomas; and two daughters, Augusta and Mary.
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